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Talk to children about the upcoming move as
soon as possible. This opens up the lines of communication so the entire family can work
through feelings and uncertainties together. As
parents, your task is simply to allow youngsters the opportunity to express their feelings
openly without having to justify or defend them.
Children's reactions to a move will vary by age. Generally,
the older the child, the harder the move. While teens concerns center around
breaking ties with peers, athletic teams and jobs, elementary-aged children worry about
whom they will eat lunch with and if they will like their teacher. Preschoolers tend to
miss certain places such as a favorite park or playhouse, and infants and toddlers simply
are confused by the change in surroundings.
Regardless of age, it is likely a child will experience
anger, frustration, loneliness and sadness, along with nervousness about what to expect in
a new community and school. |